I have experienced an interesting thing these past couple weeks, as many of my close relationships know, our lives were turned upside down almost immediately after the wedding and continue to change constantly. One thing I want to emphasize is that change and resolution comes in its own time and is not something that can be forced, solved, or expected.. though things will and do always work out for Those who Believe they will.
I want to acknowledge that as a man I want to solve every problem. Feeling… at all let alone hurts and to experience the hurts of someone I love and not be able to fix the problem, but instead sit in the stew of the agony their world is having to endure is such a horrible feeling. More than just learning that so many times woman just want to be heard, what it means is that we will listen and CARE for the process their growing in…
The Give and take takes on a whole new meaning when dissecting that there are times we (as men) need to take the back seat and let them process and grow as well. Only by allowing this process to happen can we grow into the next phases of life TOGETHER. Both having developed further into who each is becoming and meant to ultimately be.
Feeling Suck, but are also one of the greatest gift I “get to” experience today and let me know that I’m still alive. For to many years in my past I existed in a colorless world. It was not until I became vulnerable to feel that I received the blessing of feeling good and the bad.
(PS – Bad helps us recognize the good, without it we wouldn’t know how to appreciate the amazing parts of becoming a better version of ourselves.)
Much Luv and Best Regards